marriage

4 reasons why shouldn’t you rush into marriage

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Everyone around me are either getting engaged, married or even giving birth. And when you see these on the news feed of your Facebook, some guys may find the urge to propose, and girls will be eager to get married. Some may also get anxious when friends and family are already asking…. “Boy ah, when is your turn?”





But this is not right! We shouldn’t rush into marriage because….

1. Marriage is not a trend.
SO MANY PEOPLE AROUND YOU ARE GETTING MARRIED AND STARTING A FAMILY. BUT…. Relationships cannot be rushed to maturity. You need to pick a pick a partner who share similar values and interests to enhance the chances of a smooth relationship. Marriage is not like a relationship because breaking one isn’t easy and it involves the people around you. It doesn’t mean that if your best friends both got hitched, you’re next in line.

2. Marriage is a life-long commitment.

It comes with responsibilities and the ability to think of US than me. Are you ready to be responsible for someone else’s future? Also, are you financially stable to start a family? What if your partner still enjoy his or her freedom? Will he or she be happy to give in just because you want to get married?

3. If you do not share the same priorities and goals, marriage should come later.

What if both of you are not on the same page about each other’s career goals? Some people who marry at a young age often shares the same common regret of not living their life to the fullest. Time and responsibilities – Can they still be as carefree? Or do they still have the time and space to chase their dreams? Career-driven people will be able to understand this point.

4. A marriage will not guarantee that the relationship will not fall apart.
Just because you haven’t tied the knot, does’t mean that the relationship is not complete. Do not rush to find the marriage fall apart later. Take your time to experience the dating phase first.


of floral and make ups // marriage

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I like floral prints. I think they actually make a girl look more demure 🙂

June is going to be an awesome month for me because I’ll be out of the university by the first week of June and I am going to be my one of my cousin’s sisters for her wedding in the second week.

Looking forward to the Hen’s night. This is my first time!

Lots of people around me are getting married/applying for flats. What kind of age group do you think is the most appropriate to be planning all these?

I am really not as young as I look but not of marriage age yet (to me. I don’t wanna be a young mom/wife or anything). I feel that both parties should be financially stable enough to afford a flat before talking about the remaining plans. Paying for the flat shouldn’t be a guy’s thing anymore given that the living expenses in Singapore is no longer the same as the past.

Anyway, my cousin isn’t really that young (not that old either). She’s a few years older than me and they have been dating since….. Can’t remember when, but at least 7-8 years already? I was just thinking about myself. I can’t imagine leaving my parents/dog. I think I would probably cry like shit LOL. And no, would never marry young unless financially stable enough.

Please bless me with better skin and slimmer body contour and jaw.