Yes, you love each other, but does that mean that you have to be in a relationship where commitment is needed and unfortunately, serious problems occur? I don’t think so. Just because you love someone that much doesn’t mean you commit into a relationship, sometimes people do because they think it’s necessary, but the truth is, it’s not. Most relationships fail because the other one isn’t ready yet, and the other one, expects more. It won’t hurt if you stay friends and show love. You don’t need to take things seriously, and what’s wonderful in this kind of relationship? You don’t have to worry about rushing things, because by then, you will have much time for yourself to think about serious matter. Just take your time, and someday, soon, love will come to you when you least expect it, and by then, you will be ready.
is when you two can act like lovers and best friends. It’s when you have more playful moments than serious moments. It’s when you can joke around, let each other have piggy backs, have unexpected hugs and random kisses. It’s when you two give each other that specific stare and just smile. It’s when you’ll rather chill inside to watch movies, eat junk food and cuddle than go out all the time. It’s when you’ll stay up all night just to settle your arguments and problems. It’s when you can completely act yourself and they can still love you for who you are.
I know I should probably just let go, because I know that it won’t work out, and everyone tells me that. So I try to convince myself that it’s better off that way, without him. But then I’ll think of him, and remember his smile, and the way that it use to make me melt. I can’t imagine myself with anyone else, and no matter how hard it will be I want to be with him.
There is part of me that wants an answer & part of me that doesn’t want to know. Part of you that I’m in love with & the part that I’m willing to let go